Jobless Zone: A lucky break in France

I always thought it reckless to take a vacation shortly after you’ve been laid off. But I just did.

Medieval town of Gorde

A little background: Five years ago, when I entered the Jobless Zone for the first time after a layoff, people suggested I take a trip. It would be a good, healthy break, they said. I thought they were crazy. They all were working, of course, and most of them didn’t have to worry about a big mortgage.

So I ignored them. I jumped right in, sending resumes and constantly checking job boards. I stressed. And I had a really embarrassing, public panic attack. It took three months to land another job.

This time around, I’m determined to navigate the Jobless Zone with a little more grace. I’m more relaxed, I’ve had my mom out to visit for a few days, and then I went to Provence for a week. Honestly, I don’t know if I would have taken such a trip if it weren’t already scheduled and paid for months before. The timing of the actual trip was pure luck.

The break was really helpful; I am fortunate enough that I could afford the trip and budget accordingly. Being in a foreign country, admiring historic sites, trying to speak the language, and laughing with friends did a world of good for my soul.

Now, I definitely would recommend a break to anyone who gets laid off. It doesn’t have to be a major trip or costly adventure. Be a tourist for a day or two in your own city. Take a few scenic hikes. Visit family and friends.

Losing a job is traumatic, and it takes a while to heal. Spend time away from anything job-related for at least a few days so that you get your mojo back.

I went a little overboard with the photos in France (I took more than 450), but here’s a few:

A rampart in the town of Ansouis (where I stayed)

The Pont du Gard, an ancient Roman marvel

For more, see my sets on Flickr:

• Cities and landscapes
• Churches, doors, and objects
• Roman treasures